To Lent… Or Not To Lent?

The supermarket Peeps are out. This can only mean one thing: on to the next religious/commercial season!

In about a week, Catholics and some Christians will observe Ash Wednesday and begin the season of Lent, a time of remembering the wilderness journey of Jesus and His ultimate sacrifice for us. Much like Advent, Lent is a season of preparation and waiting.

So begins the annual debate amongst Protestants and evangelicals, “to Lent… or not to Lent?” We have a funny relationship with this season… trying to strike a proper balance between the secular and the holy is no small task. Some will go out of their way to not celebrate Lent, calling it a return to the ritualistic stuff the Reformation did away with. “Fish on Fridays!” was a strict observance of my Presbyterian church when I was a kid. Did you know McDonalds’ Filet-O-Fish sandwiches were created to keep Catholic customers happy during Lent? And that the entire Swiss Reformation was kicked off by a couple of priests who decided they wanted some delicious sausages on a Friday during Lent? It was actually called the “Affair of The Sausages” and it’s as entertaining as it sounds.

I came across two images about Lent that sum up this whole debate: The first, a Catholic priest telling us that the purpose of life ain’t about being happy kids… but the purpose of life is to attain perfect life. Or something. I’m not sure actually. In the comments section this guy actually told a new convert to try their “Holy40” program because if you start off too severe at the beginning, you may not make it. The ‘Holy40’ has a nice ring to it I suppose, sounds a bit like the Christian version of chart-topping hits. Regardless, this guy isn’t messing around. You must ‘develop’ a good Lent he says… behave yourself… use the program if you know what’s good for you.

The next picture is one of a lovely affirmation done in the oh so popular new marker script that has taken over our Instagram feeds. This sweet girl promises us that free Lenten printable are coming soon to her shop… (!!!) but that she is actually dreading the approach of the season. She goes on to give a tortured but honest explanation of how if we just ‘do the work’ we too can be transformed by the glory of Easter.

So enters all kinds of confusion about fasting, rituals, personal choice, and spiritual growth. Fat Tuesday binge drinking is followed by somber Ash Wednesday piety. We bask in the work of the cross but work our tails off to feel worthy of it. It is all very odd. Something I’ve noticed about this season, especially in the more evangelical circles, is our affinity for the “40 Day” cycle. Much like Advent in December where we count down the days to the arrival, the “40 day road to Easter” gives us a chance to reflect, wait and hopefully draw nearer to Jesus.

Here’s the hook: 40 days has huge Biblical significance and can be a meaningful time for us. It can also be just another checklist exercise in futility. Here are just a few real-life book examples of the 40-day obsession that got me wondering if maybe we’ve gone off the rails just a little bit:

40 Days to a More Generous Life, 40 Days Living the Jesus Creed, 40 Days of Decrease, 40 Days of Biblical Declarations, 40 Days to Lasting Change, 40 Day Soul Fast, The 40 Day Prayer Challenge, and my favorite, 40 Days to a Joyful Motherhood… sign me up for that one.

This is just the tip of the iceberg of what’s offered to us. Some of these books or studies can be beneficial, some I know are not. We just love hitching our wagons to anything with a scheduled outcome though, don’t we?

I think we can all benefit from heartfelt reflection as we lead up to Easter. I personally am not giving up any coffee or wine, but I am picking up God’s Word. I like to focus on the Gospels, the story as it is told to us, Jesus as He is represented, as He IS. We have an old book of paintings that tells story of the Passion of Christ, it’s simple, but there’s nothing boring about it. It has the Bible verses at the bottom of each page. It doesn’t offer any new strategies or foolproof charts, it just tells the greatest story ever told. Charts and strategies comfort us, but time will prove they are a trap. Even the most spirit-filled, Biblically sound Jesus-lover has to watch out, for it sneaks through the back door of our minds and before we realize, we are trying to formulate ourselves out of our problems. It’s the gospel of self-sufficiency, self-reliance and just all -around self. It’s why these books sell so well. There must be some little trick, if we can just figure out the key, we’ll have it all figured out. By our selves.

Contrary to popular thought, we actually are called to humble ourselves and take up our cross daily (Matthew 16:24). Notice the word “daily”. Not just during Lent or Advent. I think most of us could spend 40 days just on that idea alone. We sacrifice daily. We crucify our flesh daily. We humble ourselves daily. The last thing any of us need is something to make us feel more inferior. Things may go awry during your 40 days of this or that… it’s ok. It’s not about finding perfection, it’s about finding Jesus, and ourselves within Him.

The point of this coming season is that Jesus took our place and gave us life from death. Ash Wednesday gives way to Resurrection Sunday. I agree with the old Reformers that we don’t need a calendar or holiday to begin or end anything with Jesus, He’s ever-present and doesn’t change. We don’t have seasons of obedience or sacrifice, any more than we have seasons of gluttony or sin. We have our daily bread, our uninterrupted abiding and communion with Jesus.

I do love this time of year and the chance to pause and reflect. I don’t mind Lent as long as it leads away from myself and towards God. But we mourn no longer. We are no longer slaves to sin or self. Ask Him what He would have for you during this time. Let Him decide what your 40 days will look like and I guarantee it’ll be better than any study book you could every buy.

What do you do (or not do) for this season?

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  1. Amen! I’m not Catholic, so never done that. I just stick with Jesus everyday. It’s all about Him and what He did for us on that cross. I really pray for Catholics who worship Mary and pray to saints and do all those legalistic rituals that mean nothing. I pray they realize it was Jesus who died for their sins, not Mary. I pray they realize that Christians who have passed do not hear their prayers and neither does Mary. I pray they realize there is only one mediator between God and man and that is Jesus Christ. A lot of people do religious ritualistic things and they mean nothing to them. What people need is a deep relationship with Jesus. We need His grace, not legalism. Great thought provoking piece. God bless!

  2. I’ve observed Lent since I was a child.
    I was raised an Episcoplain / Anglican.
    I’ve received the disposition of ashes since that time.

    As I have aged, I have grasped much more deeply the importance of walking those 4o days beside Jesus as well as walking his path to Golgatha—the Via Dolorosa…
    Each year, I have used the 40 days for introspection.
    I spend one day a week during Lent totally fasting…I also relinquish something that I find to be something that I can barely live without…one year it was actually butter.
    I adore butter and I love to cook…cooking with butter. This required an overhaul in our daily regime of cooking and eating.
    These little inconveniences bring my mind back to prayer and back to Jesus and Jesus alone.

    I look forward oddly enough to this emotionally heavy time in the calendar of the Chruch because it forces me to get out of myself and carve out that space I’ve allowed to cave in with all the crap from my life…filling in the space that should be reserved for my Savior.

    1. I love this and thanks for sharing it…I look forward to this time too, in a different way than Advent/Christmas. I think we all know deep down when something is drawing us toward God or pulling us away… and our own personal sacrifices are so beautiful I think. I do not love the recent uptick in sharing everything about how ‘sacrificial’ we are being… takes something away from it, obviously.
      I was in a big Passion Play for years and it was lots of work, but one of the most rewarding things ever. To go through the story over and over and experience it was life changing. I think ignoring those 40 days and skipping right to Easter is a shame…
      thanks for your thoughts friend, I knew you’d have a good take on it!

  3. Great post! I agree we, as believer should not wait for seasons or calendars of special services to improve or better our relationships with Jesus, it is daily and I also believe the calendar events can assist and provide direction and reflection. I will be participating in a bible book study as well as blogging using a Lenten Devotional pamphlet. My journey is about focusing on a stronger relationship with God, seeking to identify those things that are keeping me from the fullness of God. It may be one thing or many things, the key is to take it day by day and spending time with God, talking and listening to God. Supporting your friends and family, church and community will also be beneficial through the Lenten season. May you find yourself wholly within Jesus. 🙏🏻

  4. Love this: “I do love this time of year and the chance to pause and reflect. I don’t mind Lent as long as it leads away from myself and towards God. But we mourn no longer. We are no longer slaves to sin or self. Ask Him what He would have for you during this time. Let Him decide what your 40 days will look like and I guarantee it’ll be better than any study book you could every buy.”

    I think Jesus wants us to focus on today. Today is the day to seek and do God’s will. I don’t see Lent as particularly scriptural as it is laid out by some denominations. 365 days is probably more important than 40.

    Just my thoughts.

  5. Thank you for sharing! I’ve observed Lent the past few years as a time of reflection and reorienting and refocusing on Jesus. But Lent is certainly not the only time I need to refocus when I get off track. More and more, God graciously and gently lets me know when I’m distracted and in need of reorientation. I’m thankful.

  6. Wishing everyone who takes hold of this beautiful time in the desert a time of great reflection, growth and a renewed sense of spirit. As a Catholic convert, I have embraced the beauty of the liturgical calendar not as a religious obligation but as a naturally flowing rhythm of my life- not living by the secular calendar but by the life of my Lord.
    There is a wonderful book that I began reading that might be helpful for some- It’s called Numbering My Days- How the Liturgical calendar rearranged my Life, here is the link:

    It is a simple and helpful book written from the perspective of someone that is asking these same questions, digging deeper to find the meaning in the liturgical calendar and trying to marry the rhythm of life with it. It is an easier read which is helpful.

    I am also reminded from today’s meditation that every Sunday is a little Easter during Lent, and this helps me focus on the Easter that is to come, both on the calendar here and the day when Jesus returns.

    Grab yourself a journal and some good meditations, or maybe even write some yourself this Lent. Focus less on the number and more on the days themselves, and come out on the other side renewed in your faith.

    God bless!

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